THE POWER OF LETTING GO

OK SO, I HAVE BEEN IN COUNTLESS SITUATION WHERE I HAVE HELD ON TO SOMEONE FOR SO LONG, IT WAS SCARY! SIGNS, LOVE LOST, ABUSE, WHATEVER THAT WOULD MAKE SOMEONE REMOVED WAS NOT MY MISSION, IT JUST MADE ME HOLD ON EVEN TIGHTER.

THE FEELING OF LONELINESS IS A TERRIBLE DRUG THAT NOT ONLY CRIPPLES YOUR THOUGHTS BUT MANIPULATES YOUR HEART. FEELING A DESIRE TO HAVE LOVE, AND A WIN, ENABLES YOU TO KEEP WHATS MEANT TO LEAVE, AROUND.

ALOT OF TIME WHEN YOU ARE TOLD RELEASE AND IF THIS IS MEANT TO BE IT’LL COME BACK BUT, UM KEEP IT REAL, YOU DO NOT WANT TO WAIT FOR GOD OR THE UNIVERSE TO DECIDE WHETHER THIS PERSON IS FOR YOU OR NOT. WE WOULD RATHER KEEP THE DECISION MAKING TO OURSELVES, EVEN WHEN IT HURTING US TO DO SO!

A WOMEN SAYS LISTEN, I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS, I AM NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP BUT TREATS YOU LIKE HER BOYFRIEND. FAM SHE IS PLAYING GAMES, SHE DOESN’T VALUE YOU, LET HER GO!!!

THIS KING, HANGS OUT WITH YOU, HAS GREAT TRANSPERANCY CONVERSATIONS WITH YOU BUT NEVER TAKES YOU ON DATES, KISSES YOU OR ANYTHING ROMANTIC BUT, TELLS YOU YALL ARE DATING. GIRL BYE, LET HIM GO! HE DO NOT WANT YOU!

LETTING GO IS HARD, ESPECIALLY WHEN EMOTIONS ARE INTO PLAY. YOUR WAITING TO SEE IF THINGS WILL CHANGE, IF THE PERSON WILL SEE YOUR THE ONE, OR YOUR ENOUGH. WHEN HE/SHE IS MEANT FOR YOU THEY WILL KNOW IMMEDIATELY! GOD WILL SEND YOU SOMEONE WHO KNOWS YOUR ENOUGH!

LET US STOP HOLDING ON TO PEOPLES APPROVALS, FAKE LOVE. THE ONES WHO ARE USING YOUR FOR SPECIFIC REASONS. LET IT GO! JUST LET IT GO FAM! WE HAVE ONE LIFE, AND IT SHOULD BE FULFILLED WITH REAL LOVE, HAPPINESS AND PURPOSE!

xoxo, SHAY